I have a responsible job in education and 2 teenage children, how could I carry on seeing him now? The local newspaper painted an awful picture but somehow I just couldn’t connect the two men together. I only knew the funny, kind, caring man I’d been dating.I was surprised at what she told me; “talk to him, ask him about his life, and find out about his sentence and the terms of his license”. She told me many people turn their lives around after release from prison. I asked him why he hadn’t told me the truth, asked him what his license terms were, where he’d been in prison. He apologised and admitted he was struggling to find a way to tell me about his prison sentence. Wes wants to move on with his life, he’s served his time and needs a chance to rebuild his future.
He too was disappointed with my decision, but understood.
Prison, crime and the world he’d moved in were totally foreign to me. I ended the relationship, but I just felt so sad, it didn’t feel right.
They convince themselves it is better to just fade away.
They reason that vanishing without a trace is better than rejecting someone out right…right? By not addressing the situation, you will often succeed at exactly the thing you want to avoid: hurting someone.
I'm not talking to my ex anymore, maybe I forgot to mention that earlier...
We are classmates though so we have to see ecah other on a daily basis.
We're in OK relations but not really friends although we talk sometimes but not much about "us". No new girlfriend will stay with a guy who still talks with his ex and is not over her.
So here is the thing - should I tell her that I'm dating a new girl so that she does not hear it from someone else first? It's a thing I'd do from respect to her but honestly I'm not sure whether she would find it strange or nice that I told her that. You are not being honest with her or yourself if you are not ready to move on and are using her for now until your ex comes back.
That virus can (but may not) be transmitted to any surface of someone else’s body, via physical contact.
If it does transmit, there’s an ~80% chance that they won’t recognize any symptoms from the infection.
It's not at all the revenge plan or anything - I'm over my ex and wouldn't go back.