So I'm planning on talking to him later today about how he feels about her exactly and how I feel about him being uncommitted to his relationship with her... ) I'm thinking that I should give him a chance since I know him really well (and he's not a bad guy).
Carla must have asked to go out again and Bob must have said yes because he didn't want to make her feel bad.
Everything was great with us, I really liked him, he really liked me, let him lead, texted and called daily, pretty sure exclusive since we spent so much time together and always had a great time together BUT he just couldn’t commit. As the saying goes: don’t throw the frog out with the bathwater, especially when he’s simmering quite nicely enjoying the warm weather.
Hardest thing ever but also most personal growth ever.
Especially when he’s initiating, investing and courting, what else do you want? Many women have the titles without the relationship and they come to me in droves. She’s now wanting to apologize and go back to where they were. It’s not that bad after all in the grand scheme of things and in the context of a 6-month period, is it? Issue an ultimatum only when you know you can stick by it, not because you expect a reaction that will benefit you.
And with my method you don’t even have to say a word if you are still rotating and things don’t work anymore for you. Women are just so insecure and controlling it’s incredulous.
If you want to keep the momentum going before, after, and between dates, then your phone can be the greatest tool at your disposal.
A few texts every now and again can work wonders to keep you at the front of their mind.
I've thought about him that way before, but I didn't say anything since he was going out with Carla. Yesterday, I told him that I sort of had an answer.
But he has to make up his mind about Carla because I'm not going to let him cheat on her.
What kind of commitment do you expect at a 6-month mark that cannot wait?